My 40 Days of Love for Lent project was a fail, I'll admit
...but not completely.
Lent was still a wonderful season.
It ended with me and my baby being baptized together, which was a magical experience.
BUT, I was horrible about blogging.
There were a great many things that got in the way such as...
- Baby, baby and more baby
- Traveling to California
- Setting up for daycare
- Other things I can't remember
However, the list was made well before I started blogging so it wasn't a complete fail. Granted I didn't complete the whole list (I am definitely going to try again next year) but I did do many of the things on the list with or without the blog keeping up. I am still in love with the idea and I am dedicated to doing this every year. Next year I WILL complete it. Maybe I'll even be able to do it with the blog and pretty pictures the whole way through. Who knows? Here is what the list looked like for those of you still wondering:
40 Days of Love for Lent
Day 1: Wednesday, March 9th
Reconnect with an old friend
send a note, give a phone call, write a facebook message…just get back in touch
Day 2: Thursday, March 10th
Hold the door open for someone
do it consciously, graciously, humbly.
Day 3: Friday, March 11th
Leave a generous tip
go out for coffee, ice-cream, lunch or dinner and make your server’s day a little brighter
Day 4: Saturday, March 12th
Bake something sweet for your neighbor
Whether you’re best friends or you’ve never met, love your neighbor in a tangible way.
Day 5: Monday, March 14th
Let someone know you’re grateful for them
…and thank God for putting them in your life
Day 6: Tuesday, March 15th
Write a letter to a family member
Let grandma know you’re thinking of her or tell a far away relative “I miss you”
Day 7: Wednesday, March 16th
Call someone you love, just to say “Hello”
Have a nice chat, it will brighten your day too.
Day 8: Thursday, March 17th
Clean out your closet to donate to charity
Simplify your life, and give to those in need.
Day 9: Friday, March 18th
Cook a meal for your loves
It doesn’t have to be gourmet as long as it’s prepared with love.
Day 10: Saturday, March 19th
Read a favorite book to a child
Maybe this means babysitting for a friend, or visiting nieces and nephews. You’ll be glad you did.
Day 11: Monday, March 21st
Pack a lunch to give to the homeless
Find someone to give it to today or save it in your car for when the opportunity arises.
Day 12: Tuesday, March 22nd
Give a gift to friend
It can be as simple as a candy bar and a carton of milk. Just let them know they’re loved.
Day 13: Wednesday, March 23rd
Write a list of 40 things you’re thankful for
It may sound like a lot, but it really isn’t. Just jot things down as they come to you throughout the day and say a prayer of gratitude when you’re done.
Day 14: Thursday, March 24th
Give to a new charity
Find a worthy cause and give what you can.
Day 15, Friday, March 25th
Pay for someone’s tab anonymously
Buy a stranger’s coffee or pick a random couple at dinner to cover. It will make their day (and probably make yours as well).
Day 16: Saturday, March 26th
Plant a flower
…or some seeds, a cactus, a whole garden! Put something in God’s earth and help it grow.
Day 17: Monday, March 28th
Be Patient and Kind
work towards this always…
Day 18: Tuesday, March 29th
Set aside ten minutes for prayerful meditation
Quiet time with God in the morning will work wonders on the rest of your day.
Day 19: Wednesday, March 30th
Write a love note
and tuck it away where it will be found.
Day 20: Thursday, March 31st
Share a smile with a stranger
and maybe a warm “hello” too
Day 21: Friday, April 1st
Leave something nice on a neighbor’s doorstep
a sweet potted plant, a basket of goodies, the possibilities are endless
Day 22: Saturday, April 2nd
Write a thank you note for your priest or pastor
show them you appreciate the selfless love they show your church community
Day 23: Monday, April 4th
Be sincere when you ask people “How are you?”
then listen, really listen.
Day 24: Tuesday, April 5th
Make a treat to share with friends
cupcakes or cookies, layered dips and chips – make your specialty
Day 25: Wednesday, April 6th
Tell five people “I love you”
I bet you’ll get that love right back.
Day 26: Thursday, April 7th
Volunteer your time
Commit yourself to give a day to help out at Saint Vincent’s or help a friend with Spring Cleaning
Day 27: Friday, April 8th
Make dinner for a busy friend
Drop it off at their house, at their work, or at school. A hot meal does wonders for the weary soul.
Day 28: Saturday, April 9th
Appreciate the weather
It doesn’t matter if it’s sunny, cloudy, raining or snowing…enjoy it fully and give thanks to God.
Day 29: Monday, April 11th
Make a date with a friend
Whatever you love to do, do it together.
Day 30: Tuesday, April 12th
Frame a special photograph for someone
Think of how happy it will make them to look at it every day.
Day 31: Wednesday, April 13th
Sing a happy song while you clean
A hymn or the Gloria or a catchy tune from the radio, be a joyful steward of what God has given you
Day 32: Thursday, April 14th
Give your pets extra love
If you don’t have furry friends of your own, walk through the park and pet a playful mutt
Day 33: Friday, April 15th
Forgive, really truly forgive
“…as we forgive those who trespass against us.”
Day 34: Saturday, April 16th
Pay someone a compliment
and make sure it’s sincere!
Day 35: Monday, April 18th
Send Easter cards to friends and family
Remind them you love them during this season of joy
Day 36: Tuesday, April 19th
Write down an inspirational quote on a post-it and leave it in a public place
There used to be someone who left post-its saying “you’re beautiful” in the ladies restrooms on campus and I thought it was just lovely.
Day 37: Wednesday, April 20th
Let yourself laugh with others
Recall humorous adventures with a friend, watch a funny movie together, laugh loudly and freely.
Day 38: Thursday, April 21st
Unplug and spend time with those you love
Turn off the television, computer and phone and spend uninterrupted time together.
Day 39: Friday, April 22nd
Be in awe of nature
Go for a hike, watch the sun rise or set, revel in the beauty of spring flowers and thank God.
Day 40: Saturday, April 23rd
Journal about your 40 days of Love
reflect on this Lenten season and prepare your heart for the Easter celebration.